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family undertow
Affecting the lives of
a number of accomplished creative people is a family undertow: others
telling them they are
responsible for the ones in the family who aren't so
successful: "Your younger brother can't get a job - it's up to you to support them, because
you have all this money."
The family of
successful performers can be like quicksand, and very
toxic.
from
article The
Inner
Process of Giftedness
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"We focus on the
negatives, losing ourselves in the 'problem.' We point
to our unhappy circumstances to rationalize our negative feelings. This
is the easy way out. It takes, after all, very little effort to feel
victimized."
-- Elizabeth Kubler-Ross [author of Life
Lessons]
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book: Tara
Bennett-Goleman. Emotional
Alchemy : How the Mind Can Heal the Heart
"If we sustain our gaze within, sometimes our probe may detect pain
behind the masks we wear. ...
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... But if we continue to look... allowing
ourselves to open more honestly, our awareness penetrates further,
unraveling and dissolving, peeling away the layers as we look still
further.
"We begin to connect with more genuine parts of ourselves...
This book is about seeing ourselves as we genuinely are."
Tara Bennett-Goleman is a psychotherapist, wife of Daniel Goleman, and
collaborated with him on the book Emotional
Intelligence
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Ann Curry /
Dateline NBC : “What do you want to say to people listening right now,
young people, who are drinking too much, doing heroin, cutting
themselves? What do you say to them about what is possible in life?”
Angelina
Jolie : "I don't have the
answer for what anyone should be focusing on, but I want to fill my
mind with valid issues in the world. Find a way to be useful and have a
fight.
And
you fight for things to be better. Fight hard and there are some
amazing fights to be had out there and that is what I didn't understand
at 14.
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I wanted to fight
and, instead, I fought myself and nearly killed myself a lot of times.
Until
I realized that I should value life and be so f****** grateful that I
have food to give my son, and a roof over my head and a chance to have
a long life."
> msnbc.msn.com June 10, 2005
Angelina Jolie is also United Nations Goodwill Ambassador.
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mental health on campus
The college campus can be a stressful place. Surveys
show that the number of college students with mental health problems of
all types is steadily increasing. ...
"Since each student has roughly a 50-50 chance of
having some symptoms of depression or other problems, I think it has to
be part of the consideration in choosing a college," said Dr. Kadison,
who is also the author of "College of the Overwhelmed: The Campus Mental
Health Crisis and What to Do About It." ...
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A good strategy, experts say, is to
find out how large
a staff of mental health professionals the campus health center
retains, what kind of services are offered...
Nearly half of all students at some point find themselves feeling so
depressed they have trouble functioning, and 15 percent meet the
criteria for clinical depression, according to a 2004 survey by the
American College Health Association. ...
Most college mental health counselors, surveys show, also have noticed
a sharp rise in the number of students with severe crises, like major
depression, bipolar disorder and eating disorders and drug and alcohol
problems severe enough to require hospitalization.
> from article The Dorms May Be Great, but How's
the Counseling? -
by Mary Duenwald, The New York Times October 26, 2004
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Asked
what kinds of obstacles face today's teenagers, Jena Malone pauses.
"I think it's an individual thing. Your mountains are my
molehills. I feel like a lot of the drama we deal with in high school,
in those environments, is self-created.
We're dealing with drama and how it affects people. How it
brings people together and pulls them apart. For me, looking back, the
hardest times in my high school was all bullshit.
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I was completely traumatized by
that. It was nothing. I could have easily
thought about it from a different perspective and it would have been a
perfectly healthy situation.
I think we have more of a limited perspective when we're
young. We're not given the opportunity to search out different types of
experiences.
If all we're seeing is this high school environment, then
it's detrimental to our mental health. It has nothing to do with
reality, I think.
[darkhorizons.com
interview
May 28, 2004]
photo: Jena Malone as American Eagle Christian High School
student Mary in United Artists' film "Saved."
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You know what people say about teenagers -- everything in
their lives is so important, every little thing matters. I never was
like that. It was always about finding out about myself.. about who I
am, and how to be happy and peaceful and find balance.
Kristin Kreuk
... [zap2it.com interview]
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Joan : Adam will believe me.
God : Yes... but you don't know Adam that well yet.. how
many burdens he's already carrying.
Joan : Adam has burdens?
God : Sometimes they look a lot like gifts.
"Joan of Arcadia"
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Anne
Heche
[left] stars in "Gracie's Choice," a fact-based Lifetime movie
premiering
Monday Jan 12 2004.. as Rowena Larson, a feckless and irresponsible
young
single mother who is so neglectful of her large brood that her eldest
daughter
[age 16], Gracie (Kristen Bell, right) , eventually sues for custody of
her younger siblings.
This
story "resonated like mad," says Heche, a survivor of childhood abuse.
... "I felt that was important at a time when we need so badly to allow
children to tell their own stories so we can help solve this problem of
abuse. Until people acknowledge that problem, it can't be solved."
In
her 2001 bestselling memoir, "Call
Me Crazy," Heche candidly and hair-raisingly chronicles the
childhood
sexual abuse she endured at the hands of her father, a closeted
bisexual
who died of AIDS in 1983.
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"Some
people said it was very hard to read my book," Heche acknowledges. "I
know
this is very difficult subject matter. I know that. If you don't know
about
it, it's hard perhaps to explain why you should.
"Abusive
parents look just like you or me, and it bothers us to think that
people
we have so many superficial things in common with are capable of deeply
hurting a child." ....
"When
you look at it from the outside, the journey I've made is a rocky one,
but now I have my health and my love and my family," she says.
"My
story is by no means the worst I have heard. Not all children are
abused
sexually, but the scars are no less real. In this movie, Rowena doesn't
smack her kids around, she just disappears for two days at a time and
leaves
them to fend for themselves.
"If
you see something like that happening, it's vital to get involved. Go
online,
find out more from a place like From
Darkness to Light, this organization I work with, about how you can
step in and help to end the abuse."
from
article Heche finds healing in movie about abuse -
By
John Crook, LA Times, Jan 11 2004
photo
from lifetimetv.com
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Soft-spoken
and even-keeled in private, David Oaks
unleashes his rage publicly by tapping into the trauma he experienced
as
a patient in the mental-health system.
In
the 1970s, while he was a student at Harvard University, Oaks was
diagnosed
as schizophrenic.
He
was institutionalized and forcibly medicated. He recovered, he says, by
rejecting drugs and getting support from family and friends.
"I
was put on Haldol and Thorazine, and it was torture," he [says]. "They
took a wrecking ball to the cathedral of my mind."
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Oaks,
now 48, is executive director of MindFreedom Support Coalition
International,
a Eugene, Ore.-based umbrella group for the "Mad Pride"
movement...
Also
known as "MindFreedom," it includes so-called psychiatric survivors and
dissident psychiatrists who reject the biomedical model that defines
contemporary
psychiatry.
They
say that mental illness is caused by severe emotional distress, often
combined
with lack of socialization, and they decry the pervasive treatment with
prescription drugs, sales of which have nearly doubled since 1998. ....
from article
: Losing the Mind - David Oaks and Others in the 'Mad Pride' Movement
Believe
Drugs Are Being Overused in Treating Mental Illness, and They Want the
Abuse to Stop. By David Davis, LA Times, Oct 26, 2003
photo
of David Oaks from MindFreedom
related
book [mentioned in article] : Mad
in America: Bad Science, Bad Medicine, and the Enduring
Mistreatment
of the Mentally Ill by Robert Whitaker
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Face
the Issue - site
abuse; alcoholism; depression; drug abuse; self-esteem; anorexia;
bulimia
Some
of Hollywood's
leading ladies will star in a new public service campaign to raise
awareness
of emotional and health issues faced by young people.
Among
others,
the "Face the Issue" campaign features Halle Berry narrating a vignette
about abuse, Nicole Kidman lending her voice to an alcoholism PSA,
Sarah
Jessica Parker discussing drug abuse and Jennifer Lopez addressing
self-esteem
issues. The campaign will be seen through the end of the year on Fox,
MTV,
The WB, Yahoo!, AOL and MSN.
[Reuters/Hollywood
Reporter Oct 30 2003] [image copied from campaign site]
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Hardwicke and Nikki Reed [photo], then 13, co-wrote the movie
"Thirteen,"
directed by Hardwicke, starring Reed, Evan Rachel Wood and Holly Hunter.
It
is a harrowing drama about a young L.A. girl who grows up too fast and
finds her life spiraling out of control, fueled by a volatile
combination
of rebellion, anger and a fascination with sex, material goods,
self-mutilation
and drugs.
Hardwicke
took Reed to museums and got her interested in photography. But when
she
returned from a movie shoot a couple of years ago, she noticed that the
onetime honors student was sullen, argumentative and uninterested in
school.
"I
was lost," Reed says. "I was really unhappy with who I was. There were
lots of times when I'd wake up and just want to die. I guess it's part
of being a teenager that you always want to be somebody else.
"I
started hanging out with these bad girls because at least I felt I
belonged,
even if it really wasn't the right place."
Eager
for Nikki to have a creative outlet, Hardwicke got her interested in
acting,
which led to the idea of writing a script together.
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Reed
found a new group of friends, started getting A's in school again and
somehow
turned a corner.
"Who
knows what changed?" she says. "Maybe you can only be depressed so
long.
I just woke up and it was a new day." ...
Reed's
mom.. says she embraced the idea of Nikki chronicling the unhappiest
chapter
of her life. ... "She's been great," says Reed. "She didn't ask me to
take
anything out. And that's what makes this movie what it is -- the stuff
we didn't take out."
from
"The Big Picture" by Patrick Goldstein, LA Times, Aug 13, 2002
more
about "Thirteen" on filmmaking:
teen/young
adult
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/ self concept......cutting
/ self-injury......
..........depression::
teen/young adult......anxiety.......relationships........social
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pressure,
Malone notes, "is very hard because you have five kids around you doing
it, and you don't fit in. But I've really learned you don't have to fit
in.
"No
matter where
you go, you're always going to be you and if they don't like you for
who
you are, then what's the point of being someone else?"
from
interview with Jena Malone
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by their nature and by their identification with eminent artists,
creatively
gifted individuals may put themselves at risk for serious emotional
disturbance.
Specific assistance in managing mood vacillations may be helpful.
Self-care
strategies designed for the artistic temperament may be beneficial in
minimizing
the damage that can occur when the line between rationality and
irrationality
is crossed and recrossed.
There
are several resources that describe strategies for self-care. For
example,
David Wexler's Program for Innovative Self-Management (PRISM) is
described
in his text, The
Adolescent Self : Strategies for Self-management, Self-soothing,
and
Self-esteem in Adolescents.
In
addition, he has written two workbooks of exercises designed to help
adolescents
who are having problems with self-destructive behaviors, anxiety, mood
swings, aggression, substance abuse, and eating disorders.
from article: Creativity,
the Arts, and Madness by Maureen Neihart
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Natalie
Portman is graduating from Harvard this month. "Cambridge is the
coolest
city in
America, but I'll be relieved to go because of the stress and the tough
winters... There's
a pretty high rate of depression, isolation and craziness."
[People
/ Chatter by Anne Marie Cruz, June 23, 2003]
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think a lot of teenagers feel doubt. They feel they are different from
everyone else, and a lot of teenage girls don't get along with their
mothers.
I also
notice a lot of teenage girls not knowing what they want to do with
their
lives and they get so stressed about it. And I try to tell my friends:
"You don't have to know what you want."
Ellen Muth -
about her role of "Georgia 'George' Lass" in Showtime series
"Dead
Like Me" [LA
Times / TV Times June 22-28 2003]
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My
childhood success came and went real fast. Between 12 and 16, I grew --
as much as I was going to, anyway -- and no longer looked the same.
Like
most child actors, I found it a difficult adjustment.
Still,
I've done so many things that I wasn't associated with one thing. I'm
an
actor, not a celebrity. When recognition became an issue a few years
ago,
part of me felt undeserving. Desperate to maintain my popularity, I was
performing all the time.
Then,
I caught a glimpse of myself at the MTV Music Awards -- dressed in
leather,
grasping for jokes -- and set about changing my habits. Now that I've
stopped
trying so hard, I'm more comfortable in my skin.
Seth Green.....[LA
Times May 25, 2003]
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The
nameless program that saved my life is based on a very simple nugget,
which
is one alcoholic talking to another.. finding acceptance and
understanding.
And that's the basis of Teen Line, one teen relating to another. ....Jamie
Lee Curtis....[LA
Times, May 11 2003]
....Teen
Line
"Abuse,
AIDS, alcoholism, depression, divorce, drugs, gangs, homlessness,
questions
about sexuality, pregnancy, violence.. suicide. Teen Line.. does not
offer
therapy or advice or ongoing relationships. It does provide a caring
relationship
within which to consider the next step. It offers HOPE. ... Mental
health
professionals provide on-site supervision, consultation and support to
the teen listeners. [associated with
Cedars-Sinai
Medical Center]
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My
daughter, Stephanie Sawyer, and I have been doing the Hollywood
auditions
and movies for ten years. ... Stephanie loves being in front of a
camera.
Loves to audition and participate in the business in any way she can.
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We have loved and cherished every project we have ever worked on and
they
have become wonderful memories for us. ...
Stephanie
is a happy, well adjusted child and I believe that the people that say
this business is bad for the children, need to meet more children like
her before continuing to lump all children actors and their parents
into
one bad lump together.
All
children actors and parents are not the same. Most are excited, happy
and
grateful to be able to participate in the business and would feel a
great
loss if it was taken away from them.
Sincerely,
W. Sawyer ... [from ShowBizKid
page: Positive
Show Biz Parenting] / photo from
stephsawyer.tvheaven.com
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Hey
Hil, when ever ur really upset or stressed do u ever wish, even for a
split
second, that u weren't an actress or singer??
No,
not really
because I really love what I'm doing and understand that it can't
always
be perfect. It's just like going to school or to a job - you have good
days and sometimes you have bad days, that's just life! ...xoxo
hil*
Hilary
Duff -
responding to a question posted on message board on her site:
hilaryduff.com
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of a mood disorder may start early in life. C. Diane Ealy, Ph.D., in
her
book "The Woman's Book of Creativity" writes: "Many studies have shown
us that a young girl's ideas are frequently discounted by her peers and
teachers. In response, she stifles her creativity. ...
"Repressed
creativity can express itself in unhealthy relationships, overwhelming
stress, severe neurotic or even psychotic behavior, and addictive
behaviors
such as alcoholism. But perhaps the most insidious and common
manifestation
of repressed creativity in women is depression."
from
article: Creativity and
Depression
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Emotional
distress leads children
to
doubt
their competence
Children
who
experience emotional
distress from depression and anxiety are prone to viewing themselves
and
their world in a negative light - and this thinking leads them to
underestimate
their abilities, suggest the results of a long-term study of nearly
1,000
elementary school children.
"These
findings
are important
as they suggest that emotional distress is problematic for development,
not only as a negative emotional experience in and of itself, but also
because it may be followed by negative views of the self and the world
that predict underestimation of competence over time," says lead study
author Eva M. Pomerantz, Ph.D., of the Department of Psychology at the
University of Illinois in Urbana-Champaign.
Three
specific
negative beliefs
associated with emotional distress led children to underestimate
themselves.
One involved their tendency to blame
themselvesfor
failures while attributing successes external factors, and another
involved feeling
uncertain that they could meet
performance
standards. A third negative belief, low
self-esteem, led children to
underestimate
themselves in the social realm, but not in the academic realm.
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These findings
"are
important
because they elucidate the processes through which emotional distress
may
foster competence underestimation," Pomerantz says.
In
accordance
with previous
research, Pomerantz and study co-author Karen D. Rudolph found girls to
be more vulnerable to emotional distress than boys, and thus more prone
than boys to underestimate their competence in all areas but one - the
social arena. Strong communication skills may protect girls from
underestimating
their social competence.
from
press release 4-Mar-2003 from Center for the
Advancement
of Health www.cfah.org
related
book: Current
Readings in Child Development
image
from novel The
Hollow Summer
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Crises
such
as depression, anorexia, drug abuse, pregnancy, bullying, or other
issues
that face an alarming number of young women are hushed and hidden.
Mothers
of girls who struggle with these problems are often invisible, grieving
silently and alone. I know. I was one of them.
Cheryl
Dellasega, Ph.D. - excerpt
on
her site -
from her
book: Surviving
Ophelia: Mothers
Share
Their Wisdom in Navigating the Tumultuous Teenage Years
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Cheryl Dellasega on related page :....motherhood
: page 2..........
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